We are all self made but only the successful will admit it.
I heard a speaker say this, and it resonated with me. So often, when life seems to be going in the wrong direction or things just don't seem to be working out as planned, we look for someone who led us astray. Fortunately, we need look no further than the nearest mirror.
One thing I know for sure is that we are all responsible for one person, and that person is the one we live very closely with and know at the most intimate level...you know...it's the face staring back at us from the mirror. We often can't stand to admit it, but the reality, harsh though it may be, is that we have made our life into what it is...whether we like it or not.
So if you don't like the person your self made, remake yourself. It's totally possible and easier than you think.
IT IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD!