The biggest room in the world is the room for improvement. ~~Japanese Proverb
It seems as though finger pointing has become our biggest pastime. There is no end to the criticism of people who are not of the same mind as we are...and, of course, our way is THE way because there can be no other.
When you feel a criticism of someone welling up in your head, take a breath and count to 10, then say something kind instead. My words of wisdom in this situation are taken from author Wayne Dyer, "When you have a choice to be right or to be kind, choose to be kind."
Remember, when you're pointing your finger at someone, there are three pointing back at you.
IT IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD!