You are free to make your choices, but you are not free to choose the consequences. ~Unknown
Just needed a reminder...life is a series of choices, and how life turns out is a direct result of the choices made. It's never the fault of parents, spouses, teachers or any of the myriad of places we point the finger of blame. It is simply me and my choices that have gotten me where I am today. If I don't like it, I need to make different choices. Pretty simple don't you think?